How To Know That You Have Found The One

Do you believe in soulmates? Or the fact that there is someone out there who was made just for you, and that person will find their way to you when the time is right? Someone that compliments perfectly who you are? Basically “the one?”

Many people grow up believing in this phenomenon. Although, there is no such thing that can 100% confirm that you have found the one for yourself, you can look for signs that will tell you if you are with the person you are supposed to spend the rest of your life with. With the help of some experts, here is how you will know you have found the one for yourself.

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1. They Are Perfectly Different From You

Planning to marry someone that is the exact copy of you is boring. You would not want to marry someone you cannot learn from. You need to be with a person you admire and learn from on a daily basis so that you are able to be the best version of yourself around them and everyone else. That obviously does not mean that you would not have any similarities, you need a perfect balance so you know you are compatible.

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2. You Have The Same Core Values

A very crucial thing is to communicate your values related to spirituality, family, health, and personal growth. This is important so that your partner and you are on the same page for the long term. It is obvious that you do not have to agree on small things like your favorite movie snack, but if your bigger ideas and values are unaligned, you need to reconsider your relationship potential. Being on the same page could mean that you both want at least some degree of similarity, such as if you want kids or not, or if you both want a house outside the city or not.

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3. They Know And Respect Your Boundaries

Boundaries are the aspect of a relationship that keeps it extremely healthy. Boundaries can be in different forms; knowing when it is necessary to apologize, respecting each other’s differences, giving each other space when needed, talking to the other person when unsure of how your partner is feeling, and it works both ways. All of this speaks much about their love for you as well as themselves.

So what do you think? Is your partner ‘the one’?

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